I have a small picture in a frame in my bedroom. It is a picture of a bird resting on a branch singing with all his heart as a storm rages all around him. There is thunder flashing and driving rain all around the bird. There are ominous storm clouds in the sky above The waves in the water below the bird are strong and surging in their power. Yet this bird seems unruffled by the storm all around him. The bird in the picture is content and is doing what God had called him to do. He is not wringing his hands or cringing in fear either.
If you are a child of God; you can have that same contentment and lack of fear as well, dear caregiver. God has instructed us to not fear many times in the Bible. He has promised to always be with us. He has promised to never leave or forsake us. God is always faithful and will always keep His promises to be with us. He simply wants us to go about the tasks God has assigned us with a calmness that only He can give. For you, dear caregiver, that task is to care for your loved one.
Yet God also knows we are frail human beings. He knows we will give into fear and/discouragement at times. I know I did at times as a caregiver. Care-giving can be overwhelmingly challenging at times. Some of the challenges I face in my post care-giving days can also feel very discouraging at times. Yet when these moments come we can and must remind ourselves of God's promises to always be with us.
God says in Isaiah 41:10 in the Bible, "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."