For seven weeks I am scheduled to teach a woman's Sunday school class in my church on the goodness of God. Today was our second session. It is easy to believe in the goodness of God when life runs smoothly, yet is God good on the days when life is difficult as well? Is God good as you perhaps see your loved one deteriorate in his or her health? Is God good when you are overwhelmed with the stresses of care-giving or other life stresses? It may not always feel that way; but yes, God is good all the time, dear caregiver.
One way He shows His goodness is by His Father heart. Read Psalm 103 and find out all his benefits and blessings to you. Find out about His total forgiveness for all your sins. He removes them as far as the east is from the west! He blots them out from His memory. Bask in that grace, dear caregiver. If God removes all your sins, will He not also give you everything else you need as a caregiver? We can rest in His goodness even when we do not always understand His ways. Knowing He is a God of goodness and love enables us to walk in obedience and trust. Even the trials are sent to mold us to be more like Jesus. They too show us God's goodness and love in the same way as a good parent shows their love for their children by directing and disciplining them. Your Abba Father, your heavenly Daddy, loves you with an infinite love and goodness (Romans 8:15-17.)
Another way God shows His love for you and His goodness is by being a place of refuge for you. In fact the Lord is your only true refuge, dear caregiver. You can run to Him to regroup and to be restored when care-giving responsibilities and concerns are wearing you down. You can hide under the shelter of His wings. Check out Psalm 91 in regards to God's refuge available to you, dear caregiver. In practical terms you can seek His refuge through prayer, Bible reading,
Biblical music, and perhaps counsel and help from others. He is always there to comfort and shelter you, dear caregiver.
The password or entrance to His comfort and refuge is honesty about your feelings, dear caregiver. It is pouring out your heart to Him. It is also gratitude in the midst of the heartaches. Life is hard, but God is good. Family care-giving can be very difficult and stressful, but God is always good, dear caregiver.