What memories are you creating, dear caregiver? Sometimes care-giving can be overwhelming with its responsibilities. In that scenario who feels like the extra hassle of Christmas decorating and giving? If your loved one is very ill, somehow it may even seem out of place.
Yet perhaps we are putting the emphasis the wrong place. Is not Christmas about the birth of the Lord Jesus, of His coming to this fallen world to save us? So if your loved one is a believer, even if he or she is not with you next Christmas; you both have something to celebrate. This life is not the end of all things. We have an eternity ahead of us!
So we do not have to win contests about the best decorated house in the city or the most expensive gifts. I live alone now since my husband's passing. My Christmas decorating took perhaps only an hour this year. Dear caregiver, let your Christmas be about celebrating the Lord this year and the eternity which is ahead. Let it also be about your relationship with your family and friends and especially about your loved one for whom you are caring. Make a memory. Minimize the stress and accent the joy.
(On another note give yourself or another caregiver a gift of love this Christmas-My book: DEAR CAREGIVER Reflections for Family Caregivers. I wrote this book out of a love and understanding for caregivers. I wrote it from my own experience as a family caregiver. Click on the Amazon or Xulon links on the right hand side of the screen to purchase the book. If you prefer you can also get it directly from me by e-mailing me for specifics, My e-mail address is on the top right hand of the page.)
I really have enjoyed your blog. I have felt called lately to write a blog about caregiving for my dad, but it is mainly going to be about my particular experience throughout his time with us. I was very pleased to find you blog which is very inspiring. I love your advice to the caregiver. Thanks so much, Debra SeilingReplyDelete
Hi, Debra. I am glad that you have been blessed by the blog. I so appreciate your kind comments. Bless you for all that you do for your dad!ReplyDelete