In
the Bible God has many names. The names of God reveal His character.
When God revealed Himself in the burning bush to Moses in the Old
Testament of the Bible God said His name was “I AM.” God
as the great “I AM” means that God is everything any human heart
might need. God is even everything the caregiver’s heart might
desire and need.
Care-giving
is often one of the most difficult challenges any individual
might face in this life. Our God says He is with us in life’s
trials and difficulties, however. He says that He is the great “I
AM.” So how is God the great “I AM” in the caregiver’s life?
God says, “I AM the caregiver’s strength. I AM his or her source
of guidance and wisdom in the many decisions that need to constantly
be made in regards to his or her loved one’s health. I AM
the Christian caregiver’s peace in all the chaos and discouragement
of care-giving. I AM patient and forgiving, and I AM love
personified. I AM the caregiver’s life, and I AM all he or she will
ever need. I AM the caregiver’s salvation and righteousness. I AM
the caregiver’s all in all.”
When
God calls people to the task of care-giving He is calling them to a
very important and significant task in this world. The challenges
of family care-giving can be overwhelming and often are not
pleasant, but nonetheless care-giving is a holy calling from God
Himself.
Likewise
when God spoke to the Old Testament Moses in the burning bush,
He called Moses to another overwhelming but God ordained task. You
can read about it in Exodus 3 in the Bible. Moses did not
want to undertake the task God had assigned him. Moses was afraid and
filled with confusion. He felt overwhelmed by what God was asking of
Him, and he felt that he was not able to do what God had
asked of him. God reminded Moses that He would be with him each step
of the way. He reminded Moses that He was the great “I AM.” God
would be for Moses everything Moses needed Him to be,
so Moses would be able to complete the task that God
had assigned him.
Especially
during the last months of my husband’s life my care-giving
responsibilities became very overwhelming. My husband could do next
to nothing on his own, and the deterioration of his body was
heartbreaking. I sometimes felt as if I could not continue in God’s
ordained task for me of caring for my husband for one
more day. I am so glad I had the great “I AM” with me during
those days and months and years. Dear Christian caregiver,
the Lord God is also your great “I AM.” He is your all
and all. He will be with you each step of the way, dear Christian
caregiver, rest in faith in your great “I AM.”
(This
blog post is one of the short chapters or meditations from my book:
Dear Caregiver subtitled Reflections for Family Caregivers. My book can
be found at Xulon, my publisher and also at Amazon and Barnes and
Noble online. The Amazon link to the order page for my book is here:
http://www.amazon.com/Dear-Caregiver-Sharon-Vander-Waal/dp/1629524263/ref=sr_1_1_twi_pap_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1445529687&sr=1-1&keywords=Dear+Car
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I am so glad I read your article in Guideposts and decided to check out your blog. I really needed to read this and will continue to do so. I'm my father's caregiver. We live right next door from each other on the same land. I'm married abd have a 13yr old daughte. I love him very much but as you know, it can be few consuming. Anyway, thank you for your blog
ReplyDeleteThank you, Tonya, for all that you do for your Dad! Yes, it is consuming, but it is noble work. Bless you for all that you do for him. Thank you for your kind comments here as well.
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