We can practice the presence of God by conversing with Him and being aware of His presence in even the ordinariness of life. Being aware of His presence also helps us in the pain of life. I remember the heartache in my life as a caregiver for my husband. It was emotionally painful seeing my husband's body deteriorate step by step. Sometimes I face trials even today as a widow. In the measure that I can remember the presence of the Lord in the midst of life's painful moments there can be joy and peace. Dear caregiver, God never promised us freedom from life's problems. He has promised us His strength, comfort, and presence in the midst of the struggles, however. Look to Him in the midst of all of it. Practice His presence.
As we have already stated God's presence is an awesome gift to us. Unwrap this gift and embrace it, dear caregiver. It will provide intense joy and comfort to you in the struggles of caring for your loved one. Your story, dear caregiver, is an awesome story of God's pursuit of you first to save you and forgive you and then to use your life in His kingdom. He has promised to always be with you. Look for evidences of His care and strength and working in your life. The Lord is using your story as part of His bigger story, as you care for your loved one.
Enjoy the Lord's presence with you even in the painful moments of care-giving, dear caregiver. Walk with the Lord. Ask Him for strength, Love Him as your all-sufficient friend. It is not about being a super-hero caregiver but about depending on the Lord step by step and being aware of His presence. Sometimes it is so easy to get so bogged down with care-giving and other life struggles that we fail to see the Lord right beside us. Focus on the Lord and not the problems, dear caregiver.
Give the Lord all your burdens. Admit and turn from your real sins and failures, but also give the Lord the false guilt you sometimes heap on yourself as a caregiver for things that are out of your control. Know the character of the God who is with you. He is a God who is good and faithful even in the painful moments. Trust Him. Rest in Him, dear caregiver.